Thursday, August 29, 2019

Bi Dating Site Gives Singles More Happier

Being single for too long? And wants to experience some exciting things with some persons? Share your happy things? Even three people? Well, it’s time to go in search of a date with open-minded bisexual couples or singles. But do you know what would be the easiest method? Nowadays in your town, there are lots of beautiful bisexual singles or couples, most people tend to look into their inner qualities as well. There are many ways to access people all over the world and communicate with them.

The premium bisexual dating site bidatesite.com is the leader of bi dating sites. Some good and unique features are attracting lots of singles and couples from the whole world to find their bisexual partners. For example, sending a wink to your potential bisexual partners for increasing a chance of matching. Signing up and being a gold membership will enable you to find many bisexual couples in the bi dating site, which must be more exciting than other couples because they are more open in sex.


Over 1,800,000 bisexual finder ( a person who is looking men and women) register and join the site, it is so popular that there were more than 50% of members upgraded from standard members to gold members to get more premium experience from the site. As a matter of fact, the ability to match successfully is the best way to test a good bisexual dating site. As you can see, there is no doubt that bidatesite.com is the wonder of bi dating sites, it has helped many singles find their perfect matches and even give some new-comer advice on how to find a threesome.

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Wednesday, August 28, 2019

How to choose: Hook up on polyamory forums or dating sites


With the changes of the times, the LGBTQ group has gradually been accepted by people. After all, they are less in number, the question now is how to find the same people faster and better. The emergence of the Internet provides them with the best method. They can more easily find their partners on the free dating site. they can view photos, chat online, and finally date offline.

There are currently two of the most popular ways to find your partner on the Internet. One is to hook up on the polyamory forum, and the other is to choose a dating site. I will introduce the advantages and disadvantages of the two methods.

One of the most important advantages of hooking up on a polyamory forum is free. You can easily find many forums through Google search, register for free on the forum, post free of charge, hook up for free, and finally meet offline. Another advantage is that users of the forum have something in common, so you can more easily find people the same as you, and your hookup is more likely to succeed.


However, a polyamory forum does not have a strict user review system. When you are dating offline, you may find that you are dating a poor quality partner. And many users in the forum are just for sexual intercourse and do not want to form a long-lasting relationship. For these people, the new partner is a better partner. If you want to form a long-lasting relationship with a bisexual single or a couple, it is best not to choose a polyamory forum.

There are three reasons why users don’t like dating sites: first, the cost of dating sites is high; second, it is troublesome to fill in personal information; third, some dating sites have high costs but don’t work. In my opinion, these are the advantages of dating sites.

First, many dating sites are currently registered for free, and you can choose to pay for better service after you have tried it. After paying, you can find a partner similar to yours more easily, which can save you time and improve your match success rate. Second, filling in personal information and rigorously reviewing can ensure that the users of the dating site are of high quality. It can also help you better understand your partner before chatting and meeting. Third, the premise of everything is that you need to use a professional dating site instead of just picking one casually. I have a friend who got a bad experience on the dating site.


Therefore, it is recommended that you use professional dating sites like bicupid, tinder, okcupid. Not only can you get better service and experience, but you can also meet better partners. The most important thing is to make the money you spend valuable.

Saturday, August 17, 2019

American 61-year-old mother surrogate for gay son

One of the most controversial episodes in the American classic sitcom “Friends” is probably one of the protagonists. Phoebe gave birth to triplets for her half-brother. Today, similar situations have emerged in the US reality. Related Links: Best dating site for bisexual

According to reports, in March of this year, 61-year-old Cecil Elsage Surrogate gave birth to a baby girl for her gay son.

The matter sounds a bit “complex”:61-year-old mother Cecil surrogate gave birth to her granddaughter Uma. Uma’s father is Ceci’s 32-year-old son Matthew Elsage. Uma’s biological mother is Lia Iribe, the sister of Matthew’s same-sex partner Elliot Dougherty.


Many netizens are not clear: Is Cecil a grandmother or a mother of Uma? Why let the 61-year-old mother bear the risk of old age pregnancy? Is the baby born in this situation healthy?

On August 13, the Cecil family accepted a TV interview with Good Morning Briton and responded to questions.

Two years ago, Matthew Elsage and same-sex partner Elliot Dougherty wanted a child. They considered adoption but were concerned that their adoption application would not be passed in Nebraska. In the end, they decided to try in vitro fertilization and surrogacy.

At that time, Cecil Elsage, 59, suggested that she could surrogate for them. After the doctor’s examination, Cecil’s body age is only about 40 years old, and she can be surrogate. In the end, Matthew provided sperm, Elliot’s sister provided eggs, Cecil provided surrogacy, and naturally gave birth to Uma on March 25 this year.

Cecil said in the television interview: I don’t think there is anything wrong with this. This is what every mother will do. According to reports, during the pregnancy, the Cecil family remained silent. After Uma was born, they often shared the life of the family and the growth of Uma on social media.


In fact, after the surrogacy news was revealed, the Cecil family faced many negative comments and malicious speculations. Such as criticism of homosexual groups. Matthew and Elliot try to ignore these malicious voices and often share the happy lives of their families on social media. Let us support them and wish them happiness.


Sunday, August 11, 2019

Bisexual Women Explain Why They Hate Being ‘Unicorn Hunted’ for Threesomes

As nonmonogamous dating and polyamory have become more popular, the practice of couples using dating apps to deceive women into being their mythical ‘third’ is on the rise.
Chloe, who is bisexual, had her dating app set to exclude men when she matched with Cat. Though Cat’s profile mentioned being interested in “someone to join” her and her boyfriend, it also said she was up for dating solo. Chloe clarified that she wasn’t interested in a threesome, and the two of them shared what she describes as “fast-track intimacy.” Two dates and some sex later, Cat abruptly called things off over text.
“I did feel a bit let down because I’d allowed myself to be vulnerable,” Chloe tells me. But it wasn’t until one more text came that she felt actual animosity. “It was something along the lines of: ‘I hope this isn’t too much, but would you be up for meeting me and my boyfriend?’” Chloe was angry and hurt. “I feel like the connection we shared was actually just to manipulate me into a threesome. To reel me in.” Upon reflection, she feels the experience was “toxic and actually kind of dehumanizing.”
As nonmonogamous dating and polyamory have become more popular in recent years, sex educator Ruby Rare tells me that having a threesome with another woman has become something of a gateway drug for heterosexual couples — with most conducting their search for “a third” on dating apps. Ruby embraces this increased openness but says that “the reality is that there are lots of people getting involved in these conversations who might not have much education” around sexuality, gender, and feminism — which isn’t surprising, considering the state of sex-ed in schools.
What Cat was doing is known as “unicorn hunting.”
Unicorn hunting refers to people looking for somebody to be the perfect fit for what they want sexually or romantically,” says author and academic-activist Meg-John Barker. “Often the phrase is used in the context of man/woman couples who are searching for a ‘hot bi babe’ who will fancy them both equally and join them for a threesome.” Another common usage is for a poly man/woman couple looking for a girlfriend. The main problem, though, Barker tells me, is that “they’re looking for a mythical beast who doesn’t really exist.”

“Some of the criticism of unicorn hunting is about it coming from a heteronormative standpoint, where the needs of the man/woman couple are prioritized and where there might be a sense that it’s for the man’s benefit — wanting to see his partner with another woman,” Barker adds. “Where his partner’s sexuality is assumed to be flexible in a way his is not. Perhaps even all about his desire, not hers, and not the other woman’s.”
Unicorn hunting is prevalent in a wide variety of dating apps. Designated apps such as Feeld allow couples to create shared profiles and allow all users to define their sexual desires, including threesomes, but this doesn’t prevent problematic unicorn hunting happening. Thirds are also commonly hunted down on apps such as BiCupid and Tinder, with couples either creating a profile together or using on their own. Even users of lesbian dating apps such as HER aren’t safe, with many users reporting unicorn hunterscommonly popping up in their potential matches.
In response to the proliferation of unicorn hunting on all kinds of dating apps, there is a Facebook community with over 9,000 members devoted to sharing experiences of being “hunted.” Some women-who-date-women now feel compelled to open their app profiles with lines like “I am not your unicorn,” “No, I don’t want to meet/fuck your boyfriend,” and, No threesomes please.” Lesbians are unicorn hunted, too — but women who identify as bisexual seem to be prime targets, often having their potential matches overrun with unsolicited threesome proposals.
Francesca — who had a threesome feels was “very male gaze-y,” after being unicorn hunted online — says she feels bisexual women are hunted most often in this way because they “are seen as greedy and promiscuous and always up for sex” according to societal stereotypes. “A lot of it feels really essentializing and potentially exploitative,” she says. After paying a subscription for one month to OkCupid to see who had “liked” her, 15 out of her 38 likes were from couples. “Some even had a meme as their profile picture, with ‘reasons to date a couple,’ and all the main pictures were of the woman.” In order to come up in her matches, couples set their identity as, for example, “gay woman.”
“Hitting people up for threesomes isn’t a very consensual thing to do unless they have specifically said in their profile that they are open to this,” says sex educator Justin Hancock. He also thinks “it is an example of biphobia” because “being bi doesn’t mean that people will be interested in sex with more than one person,” and that unicorn hunting often “objectifies and fetishizes” women-who-date-women. Meanwhile, hetero couples are proudly putting shiny unicorn emojis in their app profiles, hoping to find the third of their dreams.

Zoe, who has been unicorn hunted both offline and on dating apps (to the extent she felt compelled to change her username to Not Another Unicorn), thinks that the way the process plays out is almost always harmful to the third — usually a bisexual woman. She says her main problem with it is that couples are usually deceitful in their approach, and end up reinforcing oppressive structures such as patriarchy and heteronormativity.
“I find that typically guys use their girlfriends as bait, as a way of using a woman to make him — as a very masculine man — less predatory or threatening,” she says. Zoe has been “duped quite a few times in what is supposedly a queer space.” She says that usually, a woman will start communicating with her, and then — once things feel comfortable and flirty — present her male partner.
“I really have a problem with the duplicitous approach that couples have, to move under the radar in queer or progressive sexuality spaces,” says Zoë — adding that she feels it “erases genuine girl-on-girl desire” by having “women kind of orbiting male desire, only existing to serve that male desire and the male gaze.”
Holly experienced this dynamic after matching with Clara, who was in a nonmonogamous relationship with a man. Her and Clara became close, and it was only after two years of dating and friendship that she “suddenly realized that the plan the whole time… was just to get me to sleep with her boyfriend.”
In Priya’s case, initially she was interested in having a threesome with the couple who sought her out online — but in the end, she found their approach disrespectful. While she had been enjoying getting to know the woman over text, one day “the woman disappeared and suddenly the man took over.” Priya said this felt “weird,” like her connection with the woman was insignificant. And quickly, despite the fact she’d told the couple that she wasn’t comfortable sending nudes or meeting somewhere private, the man asked for both those things a second time. “I just didn’t feel like I was being heard,” she says.
This kind of treatment has left much of the queer community with a sour taste surrounding unicorn hunting. “A couple looking for someone together isn’t inherently problematic,” says Zoë, “but the idea that: ‘This is my partner, and this is someone I’m just fucking who I don’t really give a shit about but is fulfilling my needs right now’ — that makes me uncomfortable, the idea that people are disposable in relation to this primary relationship.” She says the dynamic often relies on the unicorn’s “passivity” and “strong restrictions” being placed on their desires, behaviors, and emotions. In essence, she says, often “these couples are looking for someone who is ostensibly doing sex work but they don’t want to pay for it.”

Luna Matatas — who describes herself as “a card-carrying unicorn” — started teaching workshops on pleasurable group sex after a “ton of terrible” experiences. “I’d say 95 percent of the time, I felt like I was being invited into a couples’ space as an ‘invited intruder’ — sort of like, ‘We want you here, but don’t get too close, don’t take up too much space with your desires…”
Luna can now spot red flags on app profiles — such as those asking for “no drama” and not detailing anything about their interests or positive traits.
“When I teach, it’s the exact same problems that come up all the time — the couples are usually very protective around their own needs and desires… and they forget that the other person is not just there to serve them.” She urges couples to think about what they’re offering someone else. Her own best threesome felt positive from the offset: “They were showing off their fun qualities, what sexy things they have to offer someone else.” And crucially, she says, the couple “recognized their couples’ privilege.” The couple put her comfort and pleasure at the center of the experience, and they were “treating me and them like three separate people.”
Luna urges couples to want to find someone to join them for a threesome to use appropriate apps and to have a shared profile that includes photos of them both. She says it’s important the couple only seek out people whose profiles say they’re interested in threesomes and that, while communicating with the third, they’re able to openly discuss everyone’s desires and needs equally. Basically, to remember that “the other person is actually a human and not just another body they’re adding into their fantasy.”
And if a couple would prefer someone to enact their fantasy? Maybe they should consider paying a sex worker rather than asking a bisexual woman to do it for free.

Thursday, August 8, 2019

Coca-Cola homosexual ads in Hungary were boycotted, 30,000 people signed the request to remove

Coca-Cola, a well-known beverage company, recently showed intimate photos of same-sex couples in advertisements in Hungary which sparked heated discussions and even be resisted by more than 30,000 citizens.

According to the August 6th report of ABC News, Coca-Cola's homosexual ad in Hungary sparks controversy. The advertisement caused criticism from the Conservative Party legislators in the country.

This is an advertisement for Coca-Cola Zero Cola, The theme is "love is love" with the slogan "Zero Sugar, Zero Prejudice". More than 150 subway and bus stops in Budapest show intimate posters of same-sex couples.


It is understood that Coca-Colas move is intended to respond to the local progressive music festival called Island (Sziget, Hungarian translation). The festival was launched on August 7 with the theme of "Love Revolution".

Although the advertisement of Coca-Cola conveyed a positive message, it was still strongly resisted by Hungarian conservative party member Boldog Istvan. He appealed to the public to boycott Coca-Cola and protest against the advertisement that was full of "provocative" meaning.

"Unless they remove this provocative poster from Hungary, I will never consume Coca-Cola products! I ask everyone to boycott!" Boldog Istvan wrote publicly on his Facebook.


To date, more than 33,000 people have signed online petitions to remove posters. The petition reads: "We seek help from everyone to remove the poster as soon as possible to curb gay lobbying for children, families, and society as a whole."

In response, Coca-Cola defended its advertising strategy in Hungary, calling itself a "long-term supporter of the LGBT community."


The Coca-Cola Company is committed to diversification, inclusiveness, and equality in our own business. We also strongly support these rights in society.A company spokesperson wrote in a statement to ABC News.

A spokesman for Coca-Cola said the boycott did not have much impact on Coca-Cola's sales in Hungary.


Monday, August 5, 2019

5 Tips for Bisexual Women Who Want to Date Women


You've got this!

So you’re a bisexual woman who’s never dated women, or maybe it’s just been a while. Though some people may act like there’s a huge difference in dating people of different genders, at the end of the day, dating is dating. Still, we understand why you’re feeling a little nervous. Dating in itself is scary, but it’s also ridiculously fun and exciting.

To help you out, we came up with 5 tips to help you calm your nerves so you can spend less time stressing, and more time getting pumped.

1. Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there.

Dating happens because we put ourselves on the best and free bi online dating site. We risk rejection, we risk embarrassment, and we meet new people with the hope that we’ll discover that special magic that makes relationships worth all of the hard work and energy. Gather up your courage and prepare to throw yourself into the world of dating women. We promise - it’s not all that different.


2. Try not to freak out if things don’t happen overnight.

So you’ve decided that you want to hook up with another woman. Awesome! You got all sexy and you’re strolling around looking for someone you could be into - or, you know, swiping on your phone - and you’re ready to go. But things may not happen immediately. Try not to be hard on yourself in the face of rejection, and try not to stress if you’re just not finding someone you’re into. You may be dying to date a woman, but dating is dating, and dating takes time. Try to be patient, and you never know what could happen.

3. Let things happen naturally.

Remember how we said to be patient? Finding the right person, especially if you want to date (and not just hook up) doesn’t happen immediately for good reason. Do you really want to jump into a relationship with someone who’s totally not right for you? Let things find their pace and just go with the flow, and you’ll probably end up surprising yourself when a totally rad woman seems to come out of nowhere.


4. Prepare for biphobia.

No, not every lesbian or woman who dates women is biphobic. But biphobia, which often presents itself as a complete judgment of bisexual people, is rampant in the queer community, and it’s better to prepare yourself than to go in totally naive. Some people think that bi women are “slutty” and “greedy,” and that they refuse to pick aside. If you come across a biphobic woman, just keep moving. Find someone who respects who you are and who won’t question your identity.

5. Know what you’re ready for.

Maybe you’ve never had sex with a woman. Maybe you’ve never even kissed another girl before. Know what you’re ready for ahead of time, or be straightforward with the woman you’re hooking up with when the time comes. She may have something she’s into, like using sex toys, that you’ve never done before, or she may have sex in a way that just doesn’t work for you. If you need to go slow to get used to things, don’t be embarrassed! And if you want to jump right in, then do it with no shame. Regardless of the pace you think is right for you, know that it’s valid, and there’s no one way to go about sleeping with women.