Rules of Threesome

Ask any man what is on his sexual wish list, and the threesome is probably the first point. And if he's been lucky enough to already have one. This sentence is probably written like this: "Come on another threesome." Why? Because what else could possibly be better than having not one, but two people in bed with you to get nasty with? I mean sure, there are some practicalities involved. For example, you need to find another sex partner who is willing, and your partner is also willing. And of course, there's the art of making sure that no one feels too left out during the act. But when it's done correctly, there's pretty much nothing that tops a steamy, successful ménage à trois.

So how do you go about having threesome dating of your own? Thanks to online dating sites and apps, finding a third has gone from just hoping that you meet a willing partner at the bar to having a whole pool of potential thirds to choose from. But once you find that special number 3, a bisexual single, what should you do now? Did you invite the bisexual man or bisexual woman to your home? To make sure all parties involved have the best threesome experience ever, we've put together a handy guide to help you get there.

1. Finding A Third
You have two options: either go to the bar or go online. If you're taking your search online, try bicupid.com  dedicated to facilitating threesomes between bisexual couples and biseual singles who are down for a ménage à trois. It works the exact same way as Tinder does in terms of functionality – meaning you can search by distance, age and gender, and you're only matched if both parties have swiped right on each other. I'm going to let you in on a little secret here: Women fantasize about having threesomes, too. With two dudes. Therefore, bisexual couples can also invite a bisexual man to perform a threesome.

2. During The Threesome

Keep Yourself Busy. Especially if this is your lover’s first threelationship, she'll likely need to do some warming up, and you should let her do her thing. If the two other participants are giving each other attention, find something to do. Give light attention to both parties, whether it's stroking their back, breasts, or thighs. Get your mouth and tongue involved. Kiss necks, tongue nipples. Don't be afraid to touch yourself while doing so, either. The attention will come back around to you momentarily.

3. After The Threesome

You came, you saw, you conquered. And now there are two exhausted, satisfied women lying in your bed — one of which is your lover and the other is your sexual partner. How do you wrap things up without making it weird? Sure, it's fine to have a quick cuddle and take a few minutes to regain composure. And you're going to send your guest star home shortly after things are done.