We all know that first bisexual dating is significant, at this time people always sink into a bottomless pit worrying about where to go, what to wear, and what to talk about when sitting face to face with their dater. How to avoid this struggling situation in a bisexual dating?
The first thing we should keep in mind is never talking about politics or religion on the first date. And you can not just talk about the weather when u date with bisexual singles. Here I wanna give you some topics that can talk to get scores for your first bisexual dating.
Topic 1: Compliment
The compliment is a universal way to make your dater feel comfortable, so does it in bi dating. When u date bisexual singles, compliments always may play a key role. Cause, everyone likes to listen to sweet words including bisexual women. However, compliment doesn’t mean kiss one’s ass otherwise we may get a bad effect. Therefore we should make sure we keep it above board and non-creepy, for instance, when u date bisexual women, you can say something like “you look great in this blue dress” or “ This a flattering blue dress complimented your complexion.”
Topic 2: Hobbies
Hobbies are another useful topic in one’s first bisexual dating. Through this topic, you may get some valuable info that you wanna get out of her. But the way u talk with her needs some crafts. etc. you’d better say “what do you usually do on your weekends” rather than do u have some hobbies which may be a little bit stilted. Furthermore, when you know what hobbies your bisexual partners, it is a good way to draw them out of her in a natural, friendly way.
Topic 3: Family
As we know that coming out as bisexual is always a difficult thing. The supportive of the family gives them courage. So the family is a significant topic in our first bi dating. During the conversation, u may get some general information about her family members and background. Meanwhile, she may share the story of her coming out as a bisexual woman to you which may help both of you get a long term bisexual relationship.
Topic 4: Work
To some extent, you may also want to discuss what your date does when you date with bisexual couples or singles. We can discuss this topic at the first bi dating. But here are something we need to pay attention to. Firstly we should never ask it at the beginning. If u ask it at the beginning may leave an impression of shallow and status-obsessed. The better way is to ask at some point. Then u should ask it directly. we could try like this, “what you’d most like to be doing for a job”. That way, if your date’s stuck in a soul-destroying role in teaching, you can still hear about her passion for it.
Topic 5: Travel
As far as I can see, travel is something in which most people are interested. If your bisexual partner recently traveled to some places, she may share something of her traveling story with you. If your partner is planning to travel, you can start the ball rolling by asking her to name the best place that she wants to. and you can also recommend her to the excellent places you have been to.
Topic 6: Daily Life
On this topic, you can kick off your bi dating with the question, “So, what have you been reading/ watching/ listening to lately?” which seems more interesting than merely asking “so what do you do”. Asking your bi partners what she or he has been watching allows her to delve into her favorite TV shows. it is a low-risk way to find out interests you have in common. Recommending something decent that she ‘s never heard of may earn extra points for you.
Topic 7: Current Affairs
This topic may have some links to politics. But if you’re careful you should be able to keep it light and breezy. U may talk about some interesting current affairs rather than the sensible ones.
Topic 8: Goals
If you are gradually familiar with your bi partners, it is acceptable to ask your date about her medium-term plans. At this point, you may discuss your plan for family, career and living destination in recent years.
Topic 9: Dating History
I know this is the most important thing you may want to know and it is perfectly acceptable to ask who you have ever dated in the past years. And it may help you get more information about your date.
Topic 10
The best way to end up the night is by asking what she has planned for the next week. It’s a comfortable conversation to have while you’re strolling back to her car or apartment. if the date’s gone well, this is a clever way to factor yourself in for a second date.
Those are topics I want to talk about my first bisexual dating. There is another thing we should keep in mind that never asking too much question of a threesome of your dating which may seem you want to show off you’re accepting of threesomes.
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