5 Ways To Snag A Unicorn For Your Threesome

UNICORN: A SINGLE WOMAN INTERESTED IN SEX WITH COUPLES.

Are you a couple thinking about having a threesome with a Unicorn (a single woman who has sex with couples)? Maybe you’ve watched threesome porn together or thought about going to a sex club or putting up an ad online to find a third. If you’ve ever rubbed or buzzed one out to threesome fantasies, you’ll want to read on. 

As a card carrying Unicorn, I enjoy being a part of the affection of a couple and hottness of a threesome, but getting to the hottness can be challenging. Lemme help you out Unicorn-seeking Couples….

HERE ARE 5 WAYS TO SNAG A UNICORN:

1.  DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT AND LIKE BEFORE NEKKID TIME.

Dirty talking about a third during sex is a lot different than unpacking the logistics and emotions that need to be in place for a hot threesome in reality. Talk to your partner about what turns you on about adding another woman into your twosome. 

Discuss:

What kinds of scenes do you fantasize about with more than two women present?

What kinds of things do you want this sexy trio to do?

What are your buzz kills? (things that aren’t hard limits, but don’t make you go splooooosh)

What kind of unicorn are you looking for? (e.g. bisexual, kinky, dominant/submissive, sensual etc.)

Is there anything that makes you nervous? (e.g. jealousy, performance anxiety, body insecurity, a giant zit etc.)

Use communication as your first lube of the night.

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If you are a bisexual couple looking for a threesome, the polyamorous community is not likely where you will find that. There may be the rare exception, but an unicorn in the poly world is basically like finding a needle in a haystack, hence this online dating site have played a big role. It makes it easier for unicorn and bisexual couples to find, interact, chat and share interests with each other, and then, they can meet up each other offline.

The unicorn dating site provides the area where you can choose the choice what you want. Women seeking couples, mmf threesomes, ffm threesomes.Just click "find my match", and there are many women and men who want to find a threesome in site. Their basic informations are showed in front of you, including: age, hobby, demands, photo. Then you can enjoin your good threesome dating.

3.  ENGAGE, INSTEAD OF OBJECTIFYING, YOUR UNICORN

I’ve had couples make me feel like an object from the moment they approached me. While the attention can be flattering for an elusive sexual partner like a Unicorn, it can also make you feel like a stunt vagina. Some Unicorns may really enjoy just being an extra body for the carnal, primal heat of it. Many Unicorns want to feel sexually stimulated in mind and body, regardless if it’s for one-night or on-going.

The desire of a couple has felt hottest for me when I have felt the seductive and flirty vibes from both partners and the peripheral high of their excitement to be doing this with each other. The most un-hottest Unicorn experiences I’ve had are where the couple is dealing with an insecurity they are either unaware of or ignoring. This usually manifests itself in a constant reinforcement from them of my place as an outsider in their relationship.

Engaging a Unicorn doesn’t mean you want her permanently in the emotional sacredness of your relationship. It acknowledges her as an active participant in the threesome. It elevates her desires to the level of importance as yours. And it makes everyone feel luscious as fuck.

4.  BE CHAMPIONS OF OTHER PEOPLE’S PLEASURE (OPP)

Be a generous giver of pleasure. How do you know what makes your unicorn feel good? Communicate curiously.

I’m a huge proponent of OPP for group sex, and sex in general. Couples can often get caught up in their fantasy of a Unicorn and forget that said Unicorn isn’t a fantasy, she’s a real person with needs, desires and kinks of her own. It’s not only the desires, expectations and style of the couple that matters. Learn about the Unicorns you are approaching or who approach you by being curious.

Work these questions into conversation:

What turns you on?

How do you like to be touched?

Do you like [insert sexy thing here]?

I really like to eat ass/kiss/snuggle/give oral/receive massages, how about you?

We’ve had a fantasy of another woman joining us for a long time ever since we started dirty talking about it, what made you curious about being a Unicorn?

We really like it when everyone takes a turn being the center of attention. If you were at the centre of our attention right now, what sexy things would you like us to do to you?

My partner is a really loud moaner when they get super aroused, what do you sound and look like when you’re really turned on?

We know that not every unicorn is bisexual, how do you like to play with each person in a couple?

Look. Listen. Learn. Group sex means more bodies and more emotions. You aren’t responsible for OPP, but you are responsible for contributing to an environment where OPP is paramount. Make it safe for people to have the kind of sex they want in your fantasy.

5.  CULTIVATE CONSENT

Consent should be on-going, enthusiastic and clear. Consent isn’t just the absence of an outright ‘No’. For many threesomes, you are all relatively new to each other and haven’t yet learned what it looks like, sounds like and feels like when your partners are having a good time.

If you are lucky enough to charm a Unicorn into your bed, continue with OPP during your threesome. Make her feel welcome, desired and continually engage her in consent regularly throughout your sexy time.  Making assumptions about what’s pleasureable for someone is not only not-cool, but also makes a Unicorn get her guard up having to watch as you continually test her boundaries instead of asking.

Check your assumptions by asking questions. 

Is your Unicorn bisexual? 

What does her bisexuality look like in a threesome? 

What does her bisexuality look like with you two?

What are your Unicorn’s hard limits? Things that are completely off the table.

What are your Unicorn’s buzz kills? Things that kill the mood for her.

Does your Unicorn have a safe word she wants to use?

Is there anything in your dynamic as a couple that may trigger the Unicorn? 

Discuss kinks and fetishes ahead of time. Even if your Unicorn won’t participate in them, ask about consent for being a voyeur to it.

Is there anything physically or emotionally going on for your Unicorn that you need to be aware of to make the threesome safe, pleasureable and consensual for all?

Get your Unicorn game on folks. Happy Humping.

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What is a unicorn? Why is it difficult to find a unicorn dating?

Usually, unicorn used in the community to refer to a bisexual woman or a bi-curious woman interested in meeting other bisexual couples. Described as such due to the rarity of finding said females. By no means derogatory but quite the opposite, a rare treat. In Polyamory, which is defined as the state or practice of maintaining multiple sexual or romantic relationships simultaneously with the full knowledge and consent of all the people involved. The term unicorn is used to describe a bisexual single (it may be bisexual man or bi-curious man) who is willing to join an existing bisexual couple, often with the presumption that this bisexual person will date and become sexually involved with both members of that couple, and not demand anything or do anything which might cause problems or inconvenience to that couple.

If you have been around polyamory for some time, you have no doubt heard the terms “unicorn” and “unicorn hunters”. If you haven’t, the term unicorn also refers to a HBB or Hot Bi Babe who is ready and willing to jump into a closed threelationship with a bisexual couple and leave her poly ways behind her without contest. "Unicorn Hunters" refer to the “poor naive couple” who have come into the poly community looking for such a divine and rare creature to call their own.

The reason poly people hate unicorn hunters is that a newbie couple, not knowing where to find a bisexual woman to date with them, often turn to the polyamorous community for potential suitors. This seems like a logical way to go about things, but the trouble is that a polyamorous woman is poly for a reason. While a hot bisexual poly gal may in fact enjoy the company of a couple, she is unlikely to want to live a monogamous styled life. Again, she chose polyamory for a reason, and that reason is that she likely prefers open relationships. So, it is difficult for those bisexual couples to find unicorns. 
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Now, if the couple in question is down to have an open triad with said HBB, then things can go very well for all involved. If however, the couple insists upon a closed situation, they may be met with quite a bit of resistance, and for good reason. Even though the commonly held belief is that unicorns were ultra super rare, literally EVERY woman in a bisexual couple seeking a threesome dating is in fact technically a unicorn. Fascinating right?

The unicorn will be the girlfriend to the couple. The couple is usually considered a primary relationship, while the girlfriend will be a secondary partner to both. She isn’t allowed to do anything with one member of the triad, always with both. Though the dyad may choose to incorporate elements of the girlfriend’s life into the triad, it is not uncommon for the girlfriend to incorporate more of the dyad’s life into her own. This is the unicorn dating.

If you are a bisexual couple looking for a triad, the polyamorous community is not likely where you will find that. There may be the rare exception, but an HBB in the poly world is basically like finding a needle in a haystack, hence some online dating sites such as #1 bisexual sating site for bi singles and couples | Bicupid.com dedicated to bisexuality have played a big role. It makes it easier for unicorn and bisexual couples to find, interact, chat and share interests with each other, and then, they can meet up each other offline.